Im sitting here planning my wedding (June 9, 2012) from the time I announced my engagement until now has been crazzzzzzzzzzy...for the most part, my partner and I live in separate states..she lives in Florida and I live here in Chicago. She flies to see me every weekend unless she has to work...now the killing part about all this is its a SAME SEX WEDDING...their are only 2 straight people (my son and her brother) in the wedding party all others are lesbian femmes/studs...I have put together a team and she has put together a team, my team has the least to do but is making it hard a s ever to get done, so when I lash out at them they say that Im being mean, why am I talking to them that way, and they dont have to put up with it or my attitude..so I then say "you know what, I really dont care if you come or not and then they want to get all emotional and shit on me...is this at all fair...all I ask my team to do was make sure the Bridesmaids had their dresses and shoes...help them find some good flights and to keep them posted on the up coming issues concerning the wedding...now I find myself doing alllll of that..from the save the dates to making sure the bridesmaid have their stuff together and not to mention the flights and hotels...with all this being said am I wrong for being selfish because this is my day or should I continue to cater to these bitches and let them dictate what the hell THEY are going to do in my wedding.,..just need a little advice before i turn into BRIDEZILLA...
Hurley~Hayes
